Ah for fucksake. The night before was a whole different picture. I felt like I had this F boy thing on lockdown (excuse the Covid-pun). I was really trying to remain strong and focused with my emotions. I was actually quite impressed with myself. No calls, no chit chat, we are not even playing lockdown... Continue Reading →
So in the spirit of being open (see my last post on vibrational energy), I decided to open up my search preferences - the age limits specifically. After the last date with a guy who was in his late 40's, I thought younger is definitely more my thing! I dropped my age bracket requirements which... Continue Reading →
So I got to thinking about the last 2 or 10 dates i've had... Firstly I think that I've made a real effort to date since I started this blog in January. I think with my drive I could have had more if it were not for Covid throwing a spanner in the works. So... Continue Reading →
Date 10. Where do I begin? This was supposed to be a happy post where I recount the amazing 3 dates I've had with this guy. But here I am at midnight on a Friday with my headphones on listening to Marvin Gaye, in bed with a glass of vino having watched Bridget Jones Baby... Continue Reading →
Date 9 was a connection from before lockdown but we didn't communicate for at least 5 months. When he added me as a friend on facebook I thought oh ok, he's now interested... he's searched me out and wants to pick up the conversation. I accepted his friend request (might delete that now) and the... Continue Reading →
I was introduced to 'Date 8' via a match-maker who says that I fit the profile of what this guy (6ft+, 45, Uk/ Ghanaian mixed race, London entrepreneur) is looking for. Fantastic I thought... he sounds right up my street. The match-maker gave me a good description and said he would be in touch to... Continue Reading →
Falling in love with a fuck boy is so easily done. Trust me i've done it, over and over in fact. I've always wanted a relationship, i'm not into one night stands but I really enjoy sex, and intimacy is like a drug. Some people may make a decision that a fuckboy is what they... Continue Reading →
Halleujah I got out of lockdown last week for my first date since lockdown. I followed the 'like who likes you' challenge from my last post and matched with someone who I thought I'd dated once some years ago. The sun was shining, our UK heatwave had us all out and excited. I even ordered... Continue Reading →
So one one of the new lockdown features are zoom calls. Work ones can do one, but it's actually been quite fun catching up with my girlfriends on a evening where we are all so bored of our own company we are happy to sit with the laptop with a glass of wine or cup... Continue Reading →
I came upon a piece of performance poetry on a friends IG story today, the title "Depression and Dick Appointments" got me interested. I watched and listened to this woman perform her verse, to the sound of what sounds like a New York audience cheering her on. Oh wait a minute, I know this story,... Continue Reading →
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