Ah for fucksake. The night before was a whole different picture. I felt like I had this F boy thing on lockdown (excuse the Covid-pun). I was really trying to remain strong and focused with my emotions. I was actually quite impressed with myself. No calls, no chit chat, we are not even playing lockdown... Continue Reading →
So in the spirit of being open (see my last post on vibrational energy), I decided to open up my search preferences - the age limits specifically. After the last date with a guy who was in his late 40's, I thought younger is definitely more my thing! I dropped my age bracket requirements which... Continue Reading →
So I got to thinking about the last 2 or 10 dates i've had... Firstly I think that I've made a real effort to date since I started this blog in January. I think with my drive I could have had more if it were not for Covid throwing a spanner in the works. So... Continue Reading →
Date 9 was a connection from before lockdown but we didn't communicate for at least 5 months. When he added me as a friend on facebook I thought oh ok, he's now interested... he's searched me out and wants to pick up the conversation. I accepted his friend request (might delete that now) and the... Continue Reading →
So its my birthday tomorrow, oh the joy... on lockdown during Covid-19 while (still) single and racking up another year in the 40 club! This lockdown is an emotional rollercoaster of ups and downs. One minute i'm feeling pretty positive and chirpy about the two conversations I've got going on with guys on text and... Continue Reading →
I met this guy on Tinder, he had a well crafted and intelligent opening and response. Conversations on Tinder can be so tiresome and boring, it's a rarity to have someone with actually something to say who moves the conversation on quickly to 'lets chat - I'd like to meet you IRL' (in real life).... Continue Reading →
Date 3 was an interesting one... I'd been there before so wasn't sure if I could even class it as a date, but since we crossed paths again on bumble and both swiped right - why not! What do you do when you see a past date again on a dating app? Out of curiosity... Continue Reading →
What is this you may ask? Well a quick Google search will bring up a couple definitions of 'drip feed', but not necessarily in context of dating, but this definition fits my definition perfectly: Drip feeding is essentially the process of scheduling the delivery of content to the user, so that they don't get all the content at once.google search... Continue Reading →
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